When you think about mindfulness you might think about meditation, yoga and new age hippies who are running around in the woods. You might even roll your eyes whenever you hear the word mindfulness, because you think that it’s just one of those buzzwords without a real meaning.
Well, for some people it might be nothing but a buzzword, but for me it has a deeper meaning and I hope this article will inspire you to think about its meaning.
For me the word mindfulness means love.
Yes, mindfulness has more to do with love than you probably think.
I honestly believe that a mindful person is more likely to meet and attract the woman of his dreams. Of course this principle is also true if you are a woman and you want to attract the man of your dreams, but due to the fact that I am a man, I write this article from my own point of view.
Thanks to becoming a mindful person I learned to attract love, to allow love and to give love. A couple of years ago all those things were completely alien to me. All I wanted was to enjoy my time with beautiful girls.
Deep connections, fulfilling relationships and sharing unforgettable moments were not on my agenda. This changed over the time. To be honest, it changed because I realized that being a mindful human being was my only chance to experience the relationships that I always dreamed of.
On my journey I learned what mindfulness actually means for your dating life, your personal development and your ability to attract love. Please allow me to share my insights with you in the following lines.
Become Aware of Who You are
Mindfulness allows you to become aware of the person you are. It allows you to look into the mirror and to actually see a human being with feelings, fears and hopes. In a time in which everyone is so obsessed with appearing perfect on Instagram, Facebook and all the other social media sites that only project a false illusion, this is already an accomplishment.
Mindfulness is a state of active and open attention to the present. While millions of people walk through life without knowing who they are, where they are going and what and who they actually want to attract, mindfulness allows you to figure those things out.
The process of figuring out who you are and who you want to become is the first step towards a fulfilling dating life. Now you have the power to look at yourself without putting on a mask, to analyze your strengths and weaknesses and to adjust your behavior until you are a man who is loved by yourself and by women.