See her for who she is

What do most guys see when they look at a beautiful woman?

They either see a person who is less valuable than they are, or they see a person who is more valuable than they are.

The sad truth is that the majority of guys fall into one of two categories. They either show misogynistic tendencies that are the direct result of their failure to connect with women, or they show signs of neediness that result in the desire to put every woman on a pedestal that she doesn’t want to be on.

Mindfulness teaches you to do neither of that. A man who is mindful looks at a beautiful woman and sees her for who she really is. He sees a human being who has the same fears, the same desires and the same dreams as he has. He sees a human being who has the exact same value as he has.

This perception allows you to connect with women on a whole new level. Suddenly, you are both equal and you can connect with each other without manipulative power games.

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